[B] YOU MUST READ ALL OF PROFILE TO UNDERSTAND ME.. ;-)[/B] I am an attractive 31 yr old male.. I like listening to: almost all kinds of music, reading, going to the movies , like to drink every once and while. I am tired of playing head games. Most of my friends would say I have a easy-going, yet shy perality. But I warm up once I get comfortable and get to know someone. In the bedroom, I tend to like; kinky, traditional, straight forward and once in a blue moon experimental sex. I guess you could say I'm well rounded in the bedroom, I like it all.

My Ideal Person UPDATE, 12/6/08 :

Since i am through with the head-games, just looking for friendship and maybe a lover, fun ("fun" anything fun other than sex) everything is not always about sex. Don't get me wrong, i love the sex and want it. It's just that relationships can go alot further. Ladies, you have to know how to have a good time in or out of the bedroom.

UPDATE, 6/15/09 :

I want to say age is just a number and I do believe in physical attraction and I have always been told I was cute, so here I am, putting it to the real test. I know I'm not perfect and nobody in this world is perfect, and I don't claim to be.... but once upon a time I was perfect to someone and I would love to feel that once again, just to be someone's Superman. Anyways....I am looking for someone who is kind, caring, honest, faithful (someone who doesn't cheat), attractive, and just understands the meaning of family, respect, love and commitment to whatever relationship we have as far as dating or more and knows how to make compromises. If you really are "in love" with someone, then being kind, caring, honest, faithful and showing respect will just happen naturally. And it will be given in return. I am also looking for a friend first and go from there....I mean, if it works out and we become best friends, that's the person I want to be with. Also, if you were done wrong in your past, it's not fair to take it out on me or whoever you start over with. It is very emotionally draining and I dont have time for that anymore, I need someone that makes each other happy. One more thing, looking for someone who can laugh at my jokes...Even if the joke at times ends up being corny or cheesey...LoL! I enjoy making the person I'm with laugh and happy. I'm a good man and I need a good woman in my life and my kids' life.

People say they want Trust and Love....But fail to acknowledge or accept it when it is offered and freely given. If I'm willing to offer, then why turn it down???

I am kind, caring, faithful, loving, passionate... I can take control without being controlling and still be firm, I can love without being smothering, and I have nothing but respect for the person I am with. I know how to make compromises, do you? And to top it all off, I would never cheat, it has happened to me and it hurts. Just because I'm a nice-guy, doesn't mean I'm weak, because I'll stand up for what I believe in... and that just means there is alot more to me than meets the eye.

I like to goto the movies, dinner dates, the zoo, or museum, fishing, boating, hunting, lake, beach, 4-wheeling, bar-b-q'ing, I also like to draw and read in my spare time. I even enjoy time cuddling on the couch watching a movie and eating popcorn.

After everything I've been through, with my ex and who I've dated lately... I'm begining to no longer trust women, full of lies and deceit. How they want to be friends and how they had a wonderful time and then throw you away like you never existed, they simply ignore you. I dont have time for those games or for you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having sex in the a movie theatre or in the woods would be cool.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, or a remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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